Pump Your Brakes! - Focus on Romance

If you are looking to attract your ideal mate, get what you want, and happily enjoy your relationship then don’t blink your eye on purchasing this book. It will save you dating and relationship frustration.
-Dr. Femi Ogunjinmi, author of How To Tell If Someone Truly Loves You.

Pump Your Brakes!:
How To Stop Having Bad First Dates

You’ve had a crush on someone for quite a while and one day you either work up the nerve to ask them out or they surprise you by asking you out. A combination of excitement and anxiety wells up inside you. Where should we go? What should we do? How can I impress her or him? OMG! I have nothing to wear!
Relax, It’s just a date! No one is asking you to decide on whether to cut the red wire or the blue wire.

Pump Your Brakes! How to Stop Having Bad First Dates will help you keep things in perspective.
Dating is supposed to be a fun sociable activity! This is especially true of a first date.

The purpose of a first date is to find out how compatible you are and to determine if there is any chemistry between you. If either person feels as if they did not have a good time after the first date, then most likely there will not be a second date. Sometimes people simply do not click. That’s life!

Learn the following:

The three primary reasons why people don’t get a second date

(Read page 9 and find out how to easily avoid making these mistakes.)

Why you should stop wasting your time asking serious probing questions on a first date

If someone is into you they’ll try to avoid saying or doing anything which might blow it with you! (Read page13 to find out which questions you should be asking on a first date.)

Let go of the “Pick Me” mindset when dating (Read page 21 to adopt a Buyer’s mindset.)

What you should do if you’re ever ghosted

(Read page 34 to find out how to deal with being ghosted and lessen it’s painful affects.)

Here’s what else you’re going to learn inside:

The Four Steps to Finding Your Ideal Mate
How to Avoid Dating Burnout
How to Avoid Becoming Emotionally Invested Too Quickly
Why You Shouldn’t Chase After a Marital/Relationship Status
How to Distinguish a “Situationship” From a Relationship
Always Know Where You Are and Where You Stand with Anyone
And much, much more…

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Kevin Darné is also the author of My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany), and Online Dating: Avoid the Catfish! How to Date Online Successfully.

Kevin’s dating insight has been featured on WGN-TV Morning News Chicago, The Chicago Tribune, NBCNews.com, Cosmopolitan.com, Askmen.com, ReadersDigest.com, Bravotv.com, Match.com, Zoosk.com, Tinder, PsychologyToday.com, Men’sHealth.com, Bustle.com, Babble.com, Romper.com, AARP.org, Redbookmag.com, along with many other digital publications and radio appearances.

About the Author

Kevin Darné is the author of My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany). The book is about learning how to approach relationships with complete awareness, having realistic expectations, and using self-empowerment techniques. My Cat Won’t Bark! is laced with several humorous anecdotes and has received some noteworthy positive editorial reviews from the likes of Publishers Weekly, Reader’s Favorite, and Midwest Book Review.

His follow up book Online Dating: Avoid the Catfish! (How to Date Online Successfully) was published in August 2019. Darné reveals the six mistakes many people make, how to dodge the friend zone, sidestep the long-distance relationship trap, and avoid the catfish but most of all you’ll learn how to have fun again when dating! Online Dating: Avoid the Catfish! is a must read for anyone considering using an online dating site or app!

Pump Your Brakes! How To Stop Having Bad First Dates was published in March 2020. Pump Your Brakes! How To Stop Having Bad First Dates helps daters keep things in perspective. “Relax, It’s just a date! No one is asking you to decide on whether to cut the red wire or the blue wire. Dating is supposed to be a fun sociable activity!” This is especially true of a first date. Pump Your Brakes! provides advice and tips on: The four steps to finding your ideal mate, How to avoid becoming emotionally invested too quickly, What to do if you’re ghosted, How to avoid dating burnout, and How to distinguish a “situationship” from a relationship.